BYOK provider embeddings (wave 6 chunk B): kill local transformers

Replace the @huggingface/transformers local embedder (~316MB ONNX cache)
with an EmbeddingPort seam: graph.embeddingModel (nullable "provider:id"
slug) selects an OpenRouter/OpenAI/Gemini adapter, resolved fresh per
call from settings + the auth store so key rotations land immediately.

- src/server/embeddings.ts rewritten: slug grammar, injected-fetch
  adapters (OpenRouter input_type, Gemini taskType batching, OpenAI
  index-ordered rows), honest resolution (null = skip-with-info, set
  model with missing key = honest error), embedNewNodes with model-change
  re-embed wipe + ghost pruning + usage steps, federated catalog
  (OpenRouter /api/v1/embeddings/models — VERIFIED live, the inverse
  path 404s; OpenAI text-embedding- filter; Gemini embedContent filter).
- GET /api/models/embeddings: federated catalog, empty when no keys.
- Extraction tail records stages.embedding usage into the run's money
  channel; EMBEDDING_PRICES overlay in core/prices.ts (outside the
  sync-generated block), callCost falls back to it; cost-summary folds
  the fourth stage; graph-context injection resolves its embedder per
  run, fails honestly when unconfigured, records query tokens.
- Settings: GraphSettings.embeddingModel (null factory), section parser
  validates slug shape (id may contain colons — OpenRouter :free
  suffixes, live catalog fact).
- Removal: @huggingface/transformers uninstalled, PATHS.modelCache and
  onnx tracing entries deleted, @huggingface tracing-excludes guard
  added, stale sharp/libvips comments updated to historical.

Live-verified on port 3004: catalog federates 36 rows (33 OpenRouter +
3 OpenAI), embedNewNodes embedded 10 nodes via the free liquid/lfm-2.5
model (dim 1024, 435 prompt tokens, 1 call, $0), settings PUT rejects
bad slugs with 400.

Gates: typecheck, lint, 895/895 tests, build.

tests/settings.test.ts

@@ -21,7 +21,7 @@ describe("FACTORY_SETTINGS (the compiled factory layer)", () => {
 	it("pins the owner-decided defaults", () => {
 		assert.equal(CURRENT_SETTINGS_VERSION, 1);
 		assert.deepEqual(FACTORY_SETTINGS.general, { autoUpdate: true });
-		assert.deepEqual(FACTORY_SETTINGS.graph, { enabled: true, embedding: true, clustering: true, labeling: true });
+		assert.deepEqual(FACTORY_SETTINGS.graph, { enabled: true, embedding: true, clustering: true, labeling: true, embeddingModel: null }); // BYOK wave 6: no factory embedding model
 		const a = FACTORY_SETTINGS.appearance;
 		assert.equal(a.mode, "dark");
 		assert.equal(a.background, null); // the mode's own default, not a factory hex